Keeping commitments and the adventures of daily living
I was driving today behind a blue-hair and a piece of crap blew out of the bed of his truck. It flew under my car and blew two of my tires. I managed to get my car stopped safely – thank God for run-flat tires.
I’m also sick – I’ve got a fever as high as the Arizona desert heat – about 105 F today – and I still played in a tennis tournament. I went to work because I consider my job to be an essential service. But then I went to play tennis because I said I would. I don’t want to be the guy who bails.
Peter says, ‘at least you’re not bored.’
He’s right – I’m not bored often. About the only time is when people stick me with problems they said they would have under control. My gripe today is about people who say they will make something a priority, but then they don’t. I said I would make this tennis tournament. I said it was a priority. So I showed up.
I’m not perfect. I want to do things, and I run out of time like everyone else. I want something to be as important to me as it is to the person I’m talking to. But sometimes it’s really number 423 on my list. It’s on the list, and that means I want to do it. It just means I won’t be able to do it today. Or this year.
I guess it a skill like any other. A person has to learn to identify the priority of a project before he commits to it, and be up front about where it stands. It’s honest and polite to tell someone that ‘I would love to, and I will if I have time, but I have other priorities right now, so that will take a back seat.’
That’s how someone else will be prepared. And it’s better to know up front that find out later… and have boring down time while the issue gets resolved.
-Matt

